5/14/2021

 We fail will succeed more than we fail


How do you define success? Think about your answer on the coming paragraphs, because our thoughts about success may not be entirely accurate. For example, most people believe that success is about winning and fewer failures, where in fact it is the opposite.


I was watching American television presenter Steve Harvey, who recently said: "I have failed more times than I have been successful. You will never be more successful than you have failed ... It just doesn't work "I have done more than 200 pitches. Show consideration in Hollywood, out of those 200, they have chosen 5 out of 33 years of pitching."


So what Harvey is telling us is that in the last 33 years, his success rate of bouncing ideas in Hollywood is 2.5%. Nevertheless, he is one of the most successful television presenters and comedians, with a net worth of $ 200 million USD.


To set a similar example, consider the following quote from basketball veteran Michael Jordan: "I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost nearly 300 games. Twenty-six times I have been trusted. The game. The winning shot and miss. I have failed again and again in my life. And so I succeed. "


Are you understanding that success is not going to win again and again but should not give up till we achieve our goals or dreams? How are you? Have you experienced success that changed your life?


I am not talking about fame or financial constraints, but the success we experience with our health, relationships, career or finances. A common denominator, as Steve Harvey points out, is that we will never succeed more than fail; And it's a good thing. To get any chance of success, we have to work on our goals.


Failure saw our character


In a recent documentary hosted by David Attenborough, a pride of lions living in Africa was seen by the camera crew after more than twelve months. In it, he mentions that a lion will fail 9 out of 10 times when it is preyed upon. A lot can go wrong during a kill, which forces the lion to leave the hunt.


Therefore, it should try more often to feed itself and pride. Success is where commitment and perseverance are required to achieve our goals. Nevertheless, there is no assurance that we will prevail. A strong mindset is needed to succeed. If we experience repeated failures and failures, it can affect our self-esteem.


Have you experienced it with a goal, be it personal or professional? I have experience coaching people over the years; It is rare to meet someone who has quietness to go to the mouth of a necklace. If we want to achieve success, we need a powerful vision for our lives. Chances are, if we are not committed enough, failures and failures will stop us on our tracks.


To illustrate another example, the Navy SEAL BUD / S program is designed to exclude those who are ineligible to serve in the frontline. The quit rate is 40% and above, and it is only the selection process to get into the program.


The attrition rate is high because the program aims to select people who are mentally, emotionally, and physically skilled in frontline combat. I appreciate that our lives are not as demanding as the Navy Seals program, but the success rate is also high due to the qualifications required for success.


According to American writer Stephen Covey, failure sharpens our character edge because it promotes our personal growth and resilience. Covey talked about the need to establish strong habits, and hence why he called it sharpening saws.


Success leads


Are you realizing that success is about who we become, which determines whether we will succeed or not? Jig Jiggler said: "It is your attitude, not your aptitude that will determine your height." Those we believe to be successful have accumulated personal development throughout life so that they can reach where they are.


When I read his biography, the failures he has experienced, such as repeated failures, delays and insurmountable obstacles to reach the pinnacle of his field.


The thing that stands out the most is the strength of their character and that which creates their life. If we want to achieve any kind of success, we must often fail and fail. Furthermore, we should examine our failures to see if we are increasing in proportion to them.


However, we should not consider ourselves unsuccessful because failure is not a sign of our self-worth. Failure is an indicator that we are trying and the more we try, the greater our chances of succeeding. It bears repeating: We have to work to achieve any opportunity for success. We have to do such a gritty work in the arena that no one sees or praises us.


Knowing this, I will give you

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